Common Questions
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What exactly is the “Lifestyle” and “Swinging”?
The Lifestyle is about connection, curiosity, and exploring relationships in ways that feel respectful, intentional, and true to yourself. For some, that includes ethical non-monogamy or swinging. For others, it may simply mean meeting open-minded people, flirting, learning, or discovering more about what excites them.
Swinging is one part of the Lifestyle, where people may choose to explore intimacy with others — always with clear communication and enthusiastic consent.
There’s no one way to belong here. You’re welcome whether you’re observing, socializing, flirting, or exploring more deeply. Everything is optional, consent-first, and guided by what feels right for you.
What kind of people attend your parties? Who is welcome?
Our events attract open-minded adults who value respect, curiosity, and connection. Most guests are in their 30s to 50s, though anyone over 19 is welcome.
You’ll meet people from many backgrounds, relationship styles, and identities — curious newcomers, experienced couples, poly relationships, and individuals of all body types, genders, and orientations.
We carefully balance our guest list to keep the atmosphere comfortable and welcoming. A limited number of single men may attend by invitation or referral only, so the environment always feels safe and respectful.
Some guests come to dance, chat, and enjoy the energy. Others come to flirt, observe, or explore more intimately. All levels of involvement are equally welcome.
Our community is built on consent, communication, and comfort. You set the pace. You stay in control.
What can I expect at your lifestyle parties — and will I fit in?
Yes — you will fit in.
Many guests are attending their very first event and are often surprised by how relaxed and welcoming the atmosphere feels. From the moment you arrive, everything is designed to protect privacy, encourage comfort, and help you settle in at your own pace.
Some guests socialize and enjoy the vibe. Others flirt, observe, or explore more personally. There are social spaces where intimacy doesn’t take place, and private areas for those who choose to participate.
Nothing is expected of you.
Our goal is simple: to create a space that feels safe, playful, inclusive, and empowering — where you can be yourself and discover what feels right for you.
Do I have to participate in anything?
Never.
There is no pressure here — not to flirt, not to touch, not to explore. Many guests simply enjoy the atmosphere, conversation, and connection.
Your comfort always comes first. Your choices are always respected. And you’re free to change your mind at any time.
What if I meet someone I know?
It’s quite common in a close-knit community.
People from every profession and background attend our events, and discretion is a core value of our community. If you do recognize someone, remember that you’re both there by choice and for the same reason.
There is no expectation to acknowledge them — and no judgment either way. Privacy is always respected.
How do I say “no” if I’m not interested?
Kindly and simply.
A gentle “no, thank you” or “I’m just here to socialize tonight” is always enough. You never owe anyone an explanation.
Consent is central to everything we do. No always means no.
If anyone ever makes you feel uncomfortable, our security team and organizers are always nearby and ready to help. Your safety and peace of mind is our top priority.
Is the Lifestyle right for me?
Only you can answer that.
Some people come to explore slowly. Others come simply to learn, connect, or observe. There is no timeline, no expectation, and no pressure.
The Lifestyle should always feel empowering, exciting, and positive — never forced.
Trust yourself. Move at your own pace. And know that curiosity alone is more than enough reason to begin.
How do I purchase tickets and how much does it cost?
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For any other questions, please write us at info@elegant.studio or call us on +39 123 456 789
